Teacher development 2
As my previous post reminded you, the counsellor said I am good at communication and I am so happy to know that. You may think that I am being humble/ melodramatic/ hypocritical. If you have received enough amount of negative reinforcement of your communication skills, you will share my feeling of 'realizing my potential'.
I can't say thanks to my negative reinforcement but I guess, he really helps me to learn a few things:
- A difficult person is a difficult person. You can't expect you will be understood or comforted when you talk to a bouncing stone. It's luck if you don't get hurt.
- The best way to monitoring is not to monitor at all.
- You shouldn't regulate others' behaviors at all! Even we are family.
I gave up the idea of communicating after I have tried very hard for >20 years . I have moved on.
The next step will be: How can I stay away from the annoyance?
1 Comments:
knowing the strength and weakness of one self is the most important thing in life.
Get hold of what you've got and use it efficiently is the key.
But having said that it's all too difficult to achieve! (at least, I can't do anything with that!)
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